Here is the honest version: being over 60 and asking nicely will not erase every fee on your bill. Some charges bend at the front desk, some never will, and one age-linked perk quietly beats them all.
A federal rule that took effect on May 12, 2025 requires hotels to show resort and destination fees up front in the total price. It does not cap those fees, ban them, or cover optional charges like parking, so plenty still reach the final bill.1
Below are fifteen charges and rates, each with a note on what the desk can actually change. The biggest saving on the list is not a fee at all, and it is the one tied to your age. The first charge hits before you have even seen your room.
#15 – The Early Check-In Fee Before the Posted Time

Some hotels charge extra to check in before a set time, and Kiplinger advises asking about the fee as soon as you know you will arrive early.2 Skyscanner puts the charge at $25 to $75 depending on the hotel.
Early check-in is classed as optional rather than mandatory, so it is usually avoidable. The first step is to politely ask the front desk to waive it.
If the desk says yes, look at the final bill, because a spoken yes only counts once it reaches the billing system. A room that isn’t ready is a small inconvenience next to a $75 charge.
Fast Facts
- Typical range: $25 to $75, depending on the hotel
- Type: optional, so usually avoidable
- Best move: ask as soon as you know your arrival time
- Final check: confirm the waiver on your bill
The same question comes back on departure morning, when the posted checkout hour works against you.
#14 – Late Checkout and the Clock on Departure Morning

Late checkout is the mirror image of early arrival: the hotel charges you to stay past the posted hour. Skyscanner’s $25 to $75 range covers leaving late as well as arriving early.
It is listed as an optional fee, and the advice is to ask the front desk to waive it if you need it. Elite status in a hotel loyalty program may also let you avoid fees such as late check-out and internet charges.
If your flight or drive home is in the afternoon, this is the request that saves you the most hassle.
Even after the room is returned, the bags still need somewhere to wait.
#13 – Storage for Bags Behind the Front Desk

Fees to hold your baggage behind the front desk appear on lists of surprise hotel charges. Most hotels will store bags for free if the room isn’t ready, according to Kiplinger.2
So ask before you hand a bag over. The question costs you nothing.
This pairs neatly with the early check-in fee: decline the fee, store the bags, and start sightseeing without hauling luggage around.2 On the last day, if you were turned down for a late checkout, ask about storage before you leave so the afternoon stays free.
#12 – The Nightly Wi-Fi Charge

A lot of hotels charge $10 to $20 per night for Wi-Fi, and one list of hotel add-ons mentions a $25 Wi-Fi charge appearing on a bill. It is sometimes mandatory, but it can be avoided, and elite loyalty status may remove internet fees.
If you carry a phone with a data plan, this is the easiest fee on the list to refuse outright. Turn on the hotspot for the evening and let the hotel keep its $15.
Ask at check-in whether Wi-Fi is bundled into a fee you are already paying, because that changes the math.
Other in-room extras, such as the fridge and the safe, can carry charges of their own.
#11 – Fees for the Fridge, the Safe and Other Small Items

Fees for using the room safe appear on lists of hotel surprises. So does a $25 charge for storing snacks you bought elsewhere in the room refrigerator.
Neither is likely to be the biggest line on your bill. But they are small enough to slip past a quick skim of the folio.
Worth Knowing
- Room safe use can carry its own fee
- Storing outside snacks in the fridge can cost $25
- Fee rules are posted on the hotel’s website, at check-in and in the room
- Asking for a fee list at check-in is free and takes about a minute
The advice from the research is to read those rules before you unpack, so the surprises show up early. Anyone arriving by car has a separate nightly charge to deal with.
#10 – Parking Charged by the Night

Hotels in major cities charge $25 to $35 a day for parking, and some require valet, which means a tip on top. Suburban hotels are generally less likely to charge for parking.
A clerk can waive only what the hotel controls, so a garage run by an outside company is usually not theirs to waive. Before you arrive, use Google Maps street view to look for nearby garages.
If the fee can’t be avoided, check for cheaper parking nearby, and apps like SpotHero help with that. On a stay of several nights, the question is worth asking at the desk, since parking bends more easily than a resort fee.
Some properties also add a flat daily service charge, which is separate from tips.
#9 – The Flat Daily Service Charge

Some properties now add a flat daily service charge, separate from tips. If it wasn’t clearly disclosed when you booked, you can challenge it at checkout.
Automatic gratuities also appear on lists of hotel surprises. Under the FTC’s rule, the total price must include charges the business knows about and can calculate up front, including mandatory ones.
So a mandatory service charge missing from the price you were quoted is worth a question at the desk.
#8 – A Resort Fee for Amenities You Will Not Use

Kiplinger’s advice is to ask when you book which fees apply and whether you pay them if you skip the services.2 Then check that the charges stay off your bill if the answer is no.
Some hotels will waive fees if you say at check-in that you won’t use the Wi-Fi, gym or pool they cover. Many will not.
Hotels can legally charge certain fees even when guests don’t use the amenities, and it is often not possible to decline a resort fee. This request is worth thirty seconds and no more.
The simplest way to avoid resort fees, in Bankrate’s words, is to stay at hotels that don’t charge them. If the fee is a dealbreaker, book another hotel.
Occupancy rules decide a different charge, and a request at the desk does not change them.
#7 – The Extra-Person Charge

Hotel room rates are based on double occupancy, so a third person can add a charge. You usually don’t pay extra for kids in the room.
This is one of the fees that is unavoidable once you are in the room, so the time to deal with it is before you book. Search for a hotel that doesn’t charge it.
Quick Compare
- Worth a polite ask: early check-in, late checkout, bag storage, Wi-Fi
- Rarely moves at the desk: resort fee, extra-person charge, card hold
- Changes with how you book: resort fees waived on points stays at Hyatt and Hilton
If an adult relative is joining you for the weekend, ask by phone for the nightly dollar amount before you reserve, not at check-in. Then compare it against a second room.
#6 – The Incidental Hold on Your Card

Hotels commonly place a hold on a credit card to cover possible charges, generally between $50 and $100. Other guides put it at $50 to $200 and note that it can take days to release after checkout.
It is listed as temporary and as a charge you can’t avoid, so the front desk will not remove it. The useful move is a question instead.
Before checking in, ask how much the hotel authorizes, whether it is charged per night, and when it is released after checkout. A credit card is the safer choice here, because a debit hold ties up money from your actual checking account.
Unlike the hold, a resort fee can be waived outright on some bookings, depending on how the room was paid for.
#5 – The Resort Fee on a Stay Booked With Points

Hyatt and Hilton always waive resort fees when you book a room with points.3 Many other hotels will waive resort fees on stays booked with points as well.
With Bankrate’s approach, you use points to book an eligible room and the resort fee is waived. That is the fee from #8, removed without any haggling at the desk.
Whether it is worth doing depends on what else those points could buy. If you already hold the points, a resort fee is a good use for them, but if you don’t, it is hardly worth building a stay around.
Points are not the only route, since status and card perks reach cash bookings as well.
#4 – Resort Fee Waivers From Elite Status or a Hotel Card

NerdWallet says travelers with hotel elite status are sometimes exempt from resort fees. Bankrate recommends a hotel credit card that waives resort fees at the hotel you want to stay at.
These waivers vary by chain, and one report found mixed success at select hotels. If you already hold such a card, check the chain’s terms before you travel.
Applying for a new card just to avoid one trip’s resort fee is a shaky bet, since the benefit depends on the chain and the property.
Where no status or card applies, a phone call before arrival can sometimes change what the nightly price includes.
#3 – Fees Folded Into One Flat Nightly Rate

Properties will fold Wi-Fi, parking and resort fees into a flat nightly rate if you ask. You can often avoid fees by calling ahead and asking about packages, many of which include fee waivers for things like Wi-Fi and parking.
Booking directly through the chain is a good way to avoid fees. This one request can handle several earlier items at once: the Wi-Fi charge, the parking, even the resort fee.
Because it is a rate conversation, it works best before you arrive, with a person who can see what the hotel is willing to bundle.
#2 – Membership Rates That Start Before the Senior Age

Senior cutoffs differ from chain to chain, so the age on your ID decides where you start.
At a Glance
- Best Western: starts at 55, with a 10 to 15 percent discount
- Choice Hotels, Motel 6 and Wyndham: start at 60
- Marriott and Hyatt: start at 62
- Hilton: starts at 65, with up to 6% off at participating properties
A membership card can open the door sooner. Choice Hotels’ discount is also available to AARP members, and Best Western gives AARP members at least 10% off.4
If you are younger than a chain’s senior age, ask what card rate applies.
A card only matters when the rate behind it beats the alternatives, and the senior rate itself needs the same test.
#1 – The Senior Rate on the Room Itself

This is the one item on the list that is a published program rather than a favor at the desk. Choice Hotels offers up to 10% off for guests 60 and older with advance reservations at participating properties.4
At Wyndham, guests 60 and older who aren’t AARP members select “Senior” in the Special Rates dropdown. Because Choice ties the discount to advance reservations, ask when you reserve and bring ID to check-in.
The savings can exceed any fee here. In one Wealth Up review, a Wyndham Garden’s standard rate of $139.40 a night became $106.60 at the senior rate.
That is about $33 a night, more than the $10 to $50 per night that resort fees typically run. A senior rate cuts the room price, while a waiver cuts one line on the bill.
Treat the senior price as one quote to compare, not as the answer. A loyalty-member, AAA, AARP or promotional rate can still be cheaper.
Chains differ in age cutoffs and discounts, and only participating hotels honor the rate. So sort the charge before you ask: optional ones like late checkout or a Wi-Fi package can often be waived with a polite request, while mandatory ones like a resort fee or an extra-person charge are better chosen around when you book.
Your age does its best work on the room rate, so that is where to look first. On your last hotel stay, which charge on the bill surprised you, and did the front desk change it when you asked?
- PIRG Junk Fees Rule: https://pirg.org/edfund/articles/junk-fees-finally-new-protections-against-surprise-charges-for-event-tickets-hotels/
- Kiplinger Annoying Hotel Fees: https://www.kiplinger.com/article/spending/t059-c011-s001-10-annoying-hotel-fees-and-how-to-avoid-them.html
- Upgraded Points Resort Fees: https://upgradedpoints.com/travel/hotels/hotel-resort-fees/
- Choice Hotels Senior Rates: https://www.choicehotels.com/deals/senior-rates

